Ex

The Pleading Technique to get back an Ex

Under no circumstances act like you are pleading for an Ex to call back. Don’t call them and say things like, “Sally, would you please please call me, I have been trying to talk to you for days. So please call back.” You just look like a weak person!

Here is some of the best advice to get your Ex back. All people are curious. This is a trait that helps us humans and sometimes hurts us, but we all have it. As well all people have an interest in their self that we will call “self interest.” Self interest helps us preserve ourselves as a race, and also meet our own personal needs, some say selfish needs. But we all crave it!

Guess what? Combine the two and you will draw people, especially Ex boyfriends or girlfriends, like a magnet. So, to sum it up, you must create self interest and curiosity in your Ex to win them back.

So how can you phrase your email, text or call to combine the two? How about saying something like this, “Hi Adam, give me a call so I can thank you personally. I very much appreciate all the things you’ve done for me, and I’d like to thank you.”

Do you see what you have done? You have put your Ex in a position of curiosity as to what they did that you are thanking them for. As well you built their ego up by saying they did something that helped you. This is some of the best advice I can give you on getting an Ex back. That is a huge secret.

But before you call you need that plan, as talked about with the Magic of Making Up, that we talked about earlier. Please have this plan first. Part of the plan is knowing what to say “you appreciate they did for you” before you call. You don’t want to stumble around thinking of something at the last minute! It needs to be believable as well, no matter how simple it may sound.

Remember, what you do before, during and after each call you make to your Ex is as important as having them return your call, Text, IM or email. Having no action plan for getting your Ex back may make the situation worse and ruin your chances of getting the Ex back!

The Emergency Technique to get back an Ex

Don’t pretend there has been some emergency and call your Ex up proclaiming something like, “Bob, call me immediately, there has been an emergency and I need you to call back immediately.”